Mothers Day and my Visit to Crazy Town

 Well once again it has all changed quickly…  I really cared for the young women I took in, I tried and I wanted to help more.  But…..  In anger she threatened my children, then tried to apologize and then threatened again.  Through that experience I could not trust her anymore.  It was unfortunate and another life lesson for me to not mistake kindness for weakness.  She actually tried to use the kids father, my abuser to harm me in court and brought him to my house to photograph and go through my trash.  It was amazing that he was not arrested with the two restraining orders I have against him.  On top of it all is sadness that she would do something like that to harm my children and their stability.

I am not sure if she was just being an emotional 19 year old or really understood the consequences of her actions.  I mean it would be like me showing up to her house with her adopted father who sexually abused her and letting him take her little sister to live with him.  IT was crazy…

My kids have been with me since birth, I am all they know.  There father has worked long hours and never put them first.  After all he lied about making $300,000 per year and never spent a dime on our daughter.  He never went to her Doctor appointments, he never attended the school function or did any paper work for their doctors or schools.  It is puzzling that anyone would think he is a better choice or parent  when you look at the actual facts.  Fact:   He has hit me holding my daughter and knew he was hitting me when I was holding my daughter.  He admitted to this in court.  FACT:  he never allowed me money for the kids or food, I had to get credit cards and stuff to help my kids.  FACT:  He has demanded furniture and items like the kids bed to be returned to him immediately.  He does not care about their comfort or what will happen if they don’t have a bed.  FACT: He lies a lot and lied about owning furniture in the house and many other things on the record in court.

These are just some of the proven facts, and there are more piling up everyday.  Therefore it is amazing or crazy to think a young women at 19 who has been abused would try to harm my children’s lives and take away the person that has taken care of them since birth.  I think she is trying to hurt me somehow but really it hurts the kids.  I am not hurt anymore by their father, he cant hit me or tell me what to eat and how to live anymore.  I fear him because he is a dangerous person but he cant hurt me if he cant get near me.

This young women continues to try and hurt me and my children and accuses me of hacking email or other crazy stuff.  I gave the laptops back to the kids father, I don’t even have them or know what she is talking about?  The emails she sends me are nuts.  Even the police are amazed that anyone would send something so damaging and crazy knowing it would be used against them.  WOW

I really missed the warning signs on this person is what I think happened.  I really should not and will not bring anyone into my home ever.  Just me and the kids from now on moving forward.  That’s the way it will be and has always been.

SO on to the positive and good stuff my new life with my children and all the possibilities that go along with that.  I am actually being considered for a few Compliance Officer position for a few major corporations.  I am hoping  to move with the kids to be closer to my parents and start over.  Ultimately this will fix everything for everyone.  Better schools, better life, and their Grandparents near by.

My kids and I have a great relationship we love and appreciate each other everyday.  They are sooo much happier these days with just the three of us at home.  I can see in their eyes what a great mother I am to them and am frequently told this by the multiple parent groups and non-profits for kids I participate or are a board member for now.  My life is wonderful and I am pleased to be with my kids on Mothers day and every other day after.